Thank you MB. I think that a part of the problem in my marriage was that I was never that guy who would stand up to her. I certainly challenged her intellectually but I just struggle to be forceful with her. Maybe that is changing though. I'm sorry but I haven't kept up on your situation as my own struggles have kept me from being able to absorb the pain of anyone else. I do care though and I am sorry that you miss your husband so severely. For some of us no contact is the only option. I hope that you do something for you and something fun this weekend. I overslept this morning and missed yoga but a friend just called and invited me rabbit hunting. I haven't hunted in years but I need to get out of this house and do something! Of course I will be rooting for Peyton to win another Super Bowl and have several options for watching the game. God Bless you MB!


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.