Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[rich4j]

I bet it closer to disappointment, betrayal, hurt. It's like us guys are bred to show the deeper feelings as anger. We're taught by our male society that when something hurts (betrays, stresses, frustrates, etc) us, then beat the crap out of it, one possible reason we tend to be fixers. You have control over your choices and actions, even in those worst times.

Agree Squig. It is more about hurt and not the person themselves but everything they have done to get to this point over the last 6+ months.

I fluctuate daily on things and really really really believe after all this time in my heart she has another love interest that is in another town 5+ hours away that she visits her best friend probably 1x or 2x month now. I have dug into things and confronted her but she denies denies denies.

I just go back in our history and while we did have issues, I think this sparked the exit stage left. I guess we all go through the "why why why" 1000x times and i have to default to "it must be an EA"

Time will tell perhaps the truth comes out.