Hi Pink, I did go to the Irish music with a friend and it was good. The pub also run a regular quiz and friend suggested getting a team together for that.
Isit - funny about Santa's sleigh! It was a great night actually. Luckily I wore trainers....I had no idea how much running was involved. You'd be fine - but running is not a natural state for me!
I was at the bookstore yesterday and I'm off for a walk with some of my DRW chums today. Forecast isn't great, but I hear there's a coffee shop on the route .
Feeling pretty good. I do feel I have reached a point of acceptance and letting go of H. I accept that the D will happen and feel pretty positive about life. I don't feel particularly angry any more - towards him or towards OW. I'm able to wish them well now (most times anyway.) I don't really feel the need for any further closure and I'm expecting to move on gradually after the D. I'm perfectly fine here - what I struggle with more is potentially having contact with H. I don't mind by email, text or even phone - but to see him in person I would find stressful and I don't want to have to do that - I guess there's still some healing to do there.
Couple of new things arranged - meeting up with SS and his Mum for lunch soon and off to have lunch and play bingo with a new friend next week - should be interesting!
Have a great weekend all xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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