Job, I sent him an e-mail about the mortgage, not a text. I know that he is not checking his e-mails as often. I don’t think he read it yet. I’m sure he will try to call me to find out the details, and he will be very upset, because the next mortgage payment will be a lot higher than it was.

Sotto, thanks for stopping by. Yes, I remember days after the BD when H was not responding to some of my texts or responding later, not right away. He’s be pretty consistent with timely responses in the last year pretty much, until just recently, maybe a couple of months.

Actually, it didn’t even bother me that he was not replying to me about the mileage. I was just curios and waiting for things to unfold. The car insurance would still renew the policy at the last year’s mileage estimate, which they did before when I didn’t sent the mileage on time. At this point, it is almost like an experiment for me, to see when and how H responds, LOL.

So, I did sent him a text today “Hi H, please send me the mileage or let me know otherwise”, and included the picture of the letter from car insurance requesting the mileage update. It took about 20 min for H to respond, telling me that he is sorry, but he spaced it out, then listing the mileage and saying sorry again for the late response. I know that his truck is not parked close to the condo, it is parked next to the sales office building. He either drove there very quickly, or he had the mileage already recorded somewhere (just didn't send it me, right smile. )

Job, to your point, he could be preoccupied with something else and forgot… I guess his brain is really disturbed these days… Or… he is in a new R with some OW, LOL. I doubt though, he would not be so nice to me, I guess.

In his text he also asked me to send him the company file because he needs to pay the visa bill. Well, there are no expenses on that, except for his cell phone. I told him that I would send a file tonight or tomorrow. He replied with “Thanks”. I didn’t tell him about the e-mails I sent the other day, as in this case he will be checking them tomorrow anyway. Oh boy, I brace myself for the storm that I think is coming when he leans about the mortgage. I could be dead wrong though…


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state