I remember coming home after my wife moved out.. it was surreal. The house wasn't empty, but she took every solitary thing of hers. She made it clear that she had no intention of coming back. I was not expecting that. I didn't cry. I remember walking around, I was worried about her engagement ring for some reason (her rings came off at BD more or less). What would she do with that? I figured it would be in the box on the counter or on our bed. I was relieved that I did not find it. So then I kind of walked around the house, put all of our pictures away, anything that had to do with being married etc. I surveyed the situation. Went up to our master bed room and looked around. I noticed that her closet door was shut. I thought that was strange. I opened it... and there was that freaking ring on the floor of the closet. That's when the tears came. It bothered me more than anything else. I still wonder why she put it there, it doesn't make sense.
My point is that I feel your pain, I am sure most of us do. You can make it through this. You need family and friends to help. I am still in this house wondering what I am going to do but it does not bother me for the most part. You will be OK.
