No, I don't mean that stuff - I mean my own issues, lack of respect, etc. I need to work on my own failings and things that contributed. Not cause, but didn't help either.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?