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NYGal, I am so sorry that you seem to have hit a rough patch here lately. I know you will get through it soon though. I tend to agree with Rain on this one...they ALL lie about their spouses. ALL of them do. It would be crazy if your W didn't do this. They have to because it makes it look like they had a reason for leaving you. And, they have to have a reason or they would look like the bad guy. It's just about appearances in everyone else's eyes and your Ws desire not to look like the bad guy to them. I'm sure my H did the same thing. I have NO IDEA what he told ow, but I'm sure it was some lie to make himself look better. After H pulled the rug out from me the second time I asked him what he had just old her. He wouldn't tell me, he just said "Just what she needed to know." Well, you know what? She didn't need to know ANYTHING!!!!!

Anyway, just remember that this has nothing to do with YOU. It's just about her trying not to look like a complete idiot for leaving you. Keep your head up, this will all eventually pass.