Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

[ATPeace]

So,no she s not paying rent ...so would I be wrong to say to her that she is going to have to babysit tmorrow night for me I have two places that I would like to go to one is an awards ceremony for my son from 8 to 10 then I could join some friends for a drink once I have collected my son from his party

I think my daughter is out of line trying to black mail me she calls it a favor for a favor

She is 17 and does very vey little to help arround the house

So do I say to my daughter if you do not sit for me tomorrow night (bearing in mind she has no plans) then she can forget her boyfriend coming over again....I do not want to be harsh however we do a lot for her and right now she is actually starting to upset me ....I am sick of her trying to dictate what will and will not happen .....

She will say to my W I cannot wait till we move in to separate houses then I do nt have to live with daddy ...I guess I am scared of upsetting her and have her then decide not stay with me at all when we go separate houses.