Ghostbusting Round 5 Detaching my feelings

[ATPeace]

Hi I would really like some parenting advice tomorrow night my wife is out working my eldest son is at a party and I have been invited out for some drinks my eldest daughter is at home but she says she will only babysit if I let her boyfriend sleepover ....recently there have been several times when my daughter has been very rude to me and I have told her that at the moment until her behaviour changes no I have told her that him staying over is not going to happen

Would you back down and do a deal with your daughte