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Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best GoodDad #2650391 02/05/16 04:08 PM
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Flight Member F Joined: Jul 2015 Posts: 196	GoodDad, if you haven't already, look up "parent/child" or "underachiever/overachiver" dynamic. Sounds like what you had going on there as did I. H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling

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1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/04/16 10:27 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/04/16 10:34 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/04/16 12:29 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/04/16 12:48 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/04/16 12:50 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/04/16 02:02 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 06:24 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 06:32 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cristy	02/04/16 01:19 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 06:35 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 06:38 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 07:21 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 07:24 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 07:41 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 07:50 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 08:03 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 08:06 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 08:15 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 08:19 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 08:42 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/05/16 09:31 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 10:35 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 11:35 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 11:37 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/05/16 11:47 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/05/16 11:37 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 12:10 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Flight	02/05/16 04:08 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/06/16 06:10 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Rednail	02/06/16 06:28 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/06/16 08:18 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/06/16 08:30 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/07/16 07:54 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/07/16 08:16 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Vanilla	02/07/16 09:13 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/07/16 09:34 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Vanilla	02/07/16 09:57 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Vanilla	02/07/16 09:58 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	J5K	02/07/16 06:29 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/07/16 03:25 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/07/16 05:12 PM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/08/16 04:49 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 06:40 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	sandi2	02/08/16 09:22 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/08/16 09:48 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/08/16 09:49 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 10:13 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	TxHubby	02/08/16 10:13 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 10:31 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/08/16 10:35 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 10:51 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 10:54 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/08/16 10:58 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/08/16 11:13 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Squiggy	02/08/16 11:31 AM
BDing or detaching... not sure what I should do	GoodDad	02/09/16 06:32 AM
Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 07:31 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Cadet	02/09/16 07:38 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 07:48 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 08:02 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 08:10 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 08:34 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 08:46 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 09:26 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 09:36 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 11:06 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 01:14 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/09/16 01:22 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	J5K	02/09/16 02:29 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	TxHubby	02/09/16 02:48 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Flight	02/09/16 04:24 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 06:08 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	NYGal	02/10/16 06:10 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/10/16 08:16 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Cadet	02/09/16 08:30 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	sandi2	02/09/16 03:01 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 04:10 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Maximus	02/09/16 04:35 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Squiggy	02/09/16 06:15 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	trumpet	02/09/16 10:46 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Maximus	02/10/16 03:13 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	grelber	02/10/16 08:35 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 09:37 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	TxHubby	02/10/16 11:04 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 08:12 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 08:22 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 08:25 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/10/16 08:32 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Thornton	02/10/16 08:51 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Vanilla	02/10/16 11:12 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/11/16 05:57 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	TxHubby	02/11/16 06:20 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/11/16 07:59 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	TxHubby	02/11/16 08:23 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/12/16 03:38 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/12/16 04:45 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/12/16 05:59 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/12/16 06:14 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Cadet	02/12/16 06:15 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	GoodDad	02/12/16 06:22 AM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Cadet	02/12/16 06:29 AM
(NA) Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Cristy	02/10/16 12:05 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	fade	02/10/16 12:05 PM
Re: Confused on DB process and where I am at...	Vanilla	02/10/16 02:15 PM
Re: BDing or detaching... not sure what I should do	sandi2	02/09/16 08:17 AM
Re: BDing or detaching... not sure what I should do	TxHubby	02/09/16 11:01 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 08:10 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 07:27 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	Cadet	02/05/16 07:31 AM
Re: 1st time - Do I detach or keep showing her my best	GoodDad	02/05/16 07:53 AM

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