I pretty much did what you said. I was like I want info on this can I make a consultation. She asked me a few questions and then gave the phone to her husband. I didn't tell them anything about my WAH unless they asked.
He thinks my WAH is a immature, selfish, controlling person.
I found out that he isn't too expensive 3500$ But he will start with 1000$ and I can make payments, put it on a credit card, make the WAH pay for it..he gave me about 5-6 options on how to pay if I want to use him.
He made me laugh, CRY, smile, CRY, and then FEEL BETTER. I WILL BE OKAY.
He bought the house after we had our daughter, 2 years into our relationship but 6 months before the wedding. My L said the same, that I AM ENTITLED to some.
Same with taxes for the last 2-3 years i'm entitled to half which would be 10-15,000$ since I never got more then 500$ from 7-10,000$ tax returns.
I get half his retirement, pension, 401k, etc.
I will be FINE. I asked him so much and FINALLY got so many answers.
I hope you guys are proud of me BECAUSE I'M PROUD OF ME!
**** I put the shirt in the bottom of my drawer. I might be going a little loco. Okay maybe really loco. I may have snuck into his car to spray his cologne on the shirt and then sneak it back into the house sometimes when it runs out of his scent because I miss his smell in my bed.
I PROMISE not to touch the shirt for the whole weekend at leasy(to start off). I really do wear his shirts around and sleep in them almost every night since I always did when he worked overnights because I missed him. Boundary 180 on myself? Stop doing it because he isn't my H and I am just hurting myself from being strong.
