I do often feel like zues can offer me my husband's perspective. Something that my husband cannot communicate to me and that I cannot see because I am so immersed in my feelings and world. His thoughts do help to make me intellectualize what's going on instead of viewing it based on emotions and then I no longer hate husband. I thank you for that.
When I do talk to my husband, I feel better about him and am willing to make compromises. But this past of him avoiding relationship talks and me pushing for them makes things akward, difficult, and not realistic right now.
I don't know if it is really how my husband feels, and I don't know if it is just something I grab onto because it is what I want to hear.., an explanation for what to me is very cruel behavior because it prevents the what I don't want which is divorce.
Either way, it's important to weigh things from all sides before making rational decisions.
How do you detach from the emotions to become more rational and fair? I also do t want to get walked all over either.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
