I was asking how do you see your sitch playing out.
But, good point about the highly emotional thing... I assumed (uh oh) he was emotional because he is so scared to lose everything.
I feel like I've changed. In fact, I know for sure many things have. It doesn't seem to make any difference and he insists that I have not.

Was wondering how "going dark" looks in an in house sitch. Also thinking about separating too.
Yeah, not easy. That's an understatement.


Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?