Ok.. so I wish I would have come to this place long ago... I just read some of Sandi's ideas on how I should make her feel the loss of our M and me. Wish I did that right from the start...
So the question is what do I do now? Things are going well, but it could be an act on her part. She has done it before. If I stop making her lunch and other normal things I do I think she will go backwards or it would just be obvious.
I can GAL for sure... get out more on my own. I can end ILUs and any physical contact. We still are in the same bed... do I go sleep on the couch occasionally just saying I wasn't comfortable? Kind of tough to kick her out now. I won't email, or text or call unless it's an absolute must. Reading marriage books in front of her will stop for sure too. I can just do less around the house... leave the dishes or laundry. I won't ask her about what she is doing.
Is that enough for now? If not what do I do? Specifically?
Another fun things is its starting to spread around are small town. Awesome. A couple friends have asked me about it. I'm not sure what to say... I just say we are in a rough patch and working on somethings...
What do I do if she wants to go out with a gf for a drink? Not care? Tell her I have plans already?
