Wife wants to leave but still at home.

[rich4j]

It is just unbelievable (and I know there are many here that see it to believe it) how someone can be so different, so quickly.

Living together in that environment is hard...I am there with you and its toxic at times.

And the hammer that has dropped and changed your world is disheartening and I feel your pain and anger. How about resentment too?

I feel pain, anger , resentment, sadness and longing for the old days but we all have to keep the act up and move on.

Hope you can get thru this rough patch.