Sorry. I have one more thing to say. I feel your situation while not ideal has a chance to reconcile.

I know you feel she hasn't done the right things yet but it really think you are going to have to into the process to see if she does Coke around to what you expect.

I think you are going to have to stick with your beliefs but may need to to see what happens. If it doesn't make you happy ok at least you tried.

I think you owe it to yourself, wife and kids.

My opinion.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15