I think it's the anger that is the hardest for me right now. Since she wants to start splitting everything now, the confronting stance, the almost snarl if you dare propose something different.

She is all sweet one minute and talking nicely, then I make one suggestion for her to look after something and we are back to cold hostility. We have a house together that we had just built, it is not in a position to sell yet or we make a huge loss. She hasn't wanted to help with the paperwork until now but of course says she wanted to be part of it all along. I have suggested she take care of it this last month but no, she only wants to work together.

It is just unbelievable (and I know there are many here that see it to believe it) how someone can be so different, so quickly.