[Sotto]

Yes, I've noticed with my H, he has a big admin push - then nothing - then another burst - then nothing. He's sometimes instant with his responses. Other times he may take days. I just ask myself whether I have done all I needed to do, and then I leave it.

I agree about separating these things that are a hassle for you. Be mistress of your own destiny with insurance & leave him to sort himself out IMHO. As Job says, he's a big boy now, and you are pretty helpful with him in other ways. I would also second the drop dead date. I hold that one in my back pocket if I start to get frustrated with a lack of progress. Not one to be overused, but useful on occasion for sure.

I hope you figure out what is happening with the financials soon. Please take any steps needed to protect your own interests in all of this.

Take care xx