Ladies, I'm here to tell you the God's honest truth. No man who would ever want to cheat with you really loves you, he just wants in your pants regardless of what his words say.
If that's true, and I'm not saying it isn't, then WHY are the men so willing to throw their W's away for the OW? He's not worried about loosing ME, he's worried about loosing HER.
Originally Posted By: TxHubby
I still blame my wife for her part in the whole thing but I can also recognize that she is back from crazy land. It does happen. Sometimes they do snap out of it.
I will also swear that you have ZERO chance to work anything out with a cheating spouse while they are still cheating. That would be like playing nice and hoping a loved one wises up and leaves a religious cult. That happens so very rarely. You have a way higher chance of success in getting rid of the external influence on your cheater. That allows the fog to clear
Your W's affair was blasted by the OMs W, but, like in the case of my H, they OW isn't married. So, I have NO chance of her H blasting the affair! Not sure exactly how a spouse would accomplish this when there affair partner doesn't have a spouse. Thoughts??
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
