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dday #2650260 02/05/16 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By: dday
Less turmoil in my head.
Exactly. As you become more detached, you will likely have less to say, because it is not affecting you as much. That's a good thing smile


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
Squiggy #2650554 02/06/16 07:13 AM
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Thanks for your support dday & Squiggy. It's nice to get feedback. I think I understand why I am not driven to post every few hours now. The fundamental reason is that I have come to terms with my situation. Unless my wife desires to improve our marriage it will die of benign neglect. I accept the situation and for the most part I am at peace with circumstance.

Since we are constantly evolving this is just another stage in my growth. Thanks for your support dear friends, be well



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus
mutatio #2650968 02/07/16 02:02 PM
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I heard there was a party happening here a Mutatio's place. Not sure I got the invite. But I am here. Always loving you Mutatio, and you know you and I have this hug thing happening. I'll always find you to give you a big squeezy hug Mu. Remember your the tall to my short! All my love ((((((((((((Mu))))))))))))))).

JellyBxxx It may not look like here, I check in daily, and if I'm not here, I'm on Divorce Busting Facebook page, reading MWD stuff there. I'm never far away. I'm easy to find. wink

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Mu, there are several still checking on you. Hoping that you can drop the rope. You are thought highly of by others. Make sure you do yourself the same service!


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Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
dday #2650977 02/07/16 02:36 PM
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Hi Mu! Hope you are enjoying this weekend.

I am keeping busy with the kids and struggling with some anger/disgust issues. I could post but that seems to get me more angry and disgusted. Just coming by to check in on you and some others.

How is your welding class going?


BD 2/15
separation 1/16
formerly Pho or Fo
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Hi Mu!

Life took over. I am still rocking the purple mohawk, figuratively.

Popped by to say hi!


You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
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Hi Mu...just stopping in to check on you. How is everything going?


Me: 43, Him: 40
Married: 21 years

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Hi, I relaxed all weekend and did not do much. I hung out with my kids and watched some tv. I love your hugs Jelly, they always make me smile, thanks. Dday, I think I have dropped the rope to some extent. Some of her her choices annoy me but I am not sad all the time. I know I still have friends here, very dear friends. My welding class is keeping me busy Fo, this instructor expects a lot from us. In the long run it can only make me a better welder. Nice for you to stop by Grlonfr, I hope you had a nice weekend.

So Valentines Day is coming up and I will ignore it. I will not pursue a woman who has no interest in my very existence. Someone remind me to tell you the story of my wife and the picture frame, I'm to tired now. Good night, sweet dreams dear friends.



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Nite Mu, sweet dreams xxx

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Don't forget you said you'd update me on your pma . Did you manage to fake it this weekend with your W? What specific actions are you taking to improve pma.

I am insisting for a good reason. Best wishes.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together
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