Wife checked out (3)

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I wish that were true, the truth is I still love her dearly and want to leave the possibility of R open. So far the kids have done well. They see us both everyday in some form or fasion. WW just hangs around until they get ready for bed then off she goes. I suppose I have already made the choice to not live in limbo, hence my recent interactions with my old girlfriend. I consider this a form of GAL with the gals. As far as I am concerned, as long as she doesn't pursue divorce neither will I. All of this mess was her decision and hers to clean up. I am not bitter about her choices anymore because I have realized that I can't decide what is right for her just as she can't decide what's right for me. As long as we both do right by the kids, us adults have to live with the choices we make.