Pink, much appreciated and always great advice from you! I've followed your sitch for a long time. If you ever need a bruiser...
Red, learn the art of omission. You don't have to tell everything. Unless it comes to the well-being of your children, you don't have to tell him a single thing. He does not rule your life. You do. Besides, is he earning such an esteemed place in your life that you would need to report to him? You could simply reply that you chose to stay in and relax. It's true because you still could have gone out alone, and you chose to stay in. No real lie (for the benefit of your conscience) without revealing things he doesn't need to know.
And this leads back to detaching. Your WAH has such a strong hold on you, and I can understand it from you being only a couple months into this. You have a hidden blessing in that he is around you frequently. It gives you opportunities many do not get to display the changes within them. However, you need to take back control. This is another reason why it is so important to GAL and create a life of your own without him. Bring some joy back into your life that is independent of him and your's alone.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
