We're using collaborative L's too. Given the distance (H is down south) we aren't doing meetings - so it isn't a 'full' collaboration as such - but the tone has very much been collaborative and not adversarial. I've been really happy with my L so far (SD from A).
Good luck with things this weekend. I'm off for a walk with some DRW group folks tomorrow - should be nice
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus