Hanging in there with hope

[Sotto]

Hi Tam, I'm sorry to hear that happened. I can't think of a sitch where that has helped - except enabling him to eat cake of course. Pink (MLC) had this happen a couple of times. I think the best attitude to have is probably a 'F*** him and leave him' - if you can portray a "we had s@x, it was good and it doesn't change anything" - attitude, that would be best I think.

And if he wants it to happen again, on the basis it happened already, you could just let him know - Yes it happened once and you enjoyed it, but given present circumstances it won't happen again.

Please put yourself first in all of this and remember that you are exposing yourself to potential health risks if you guys have unprotected s@x. I would just leave him be now - no texting, calling etc. My worry for you is the more you 'poke' the situation (forgive any pun) the longer it may continue. I think the best way is to completely remove yourself from the equation and start to live your life 'as if' he will never be in it again. What does that life look like? Imagine the best possible one, smell it, taste it and then go out and make it happen for yourself - regardless of what he may be up to.

Take care xx