It's just at some point I hope the problems we are addressing are the real problems rather than what my "issues" are. There is something deep inside of her that is causing her to detach from her life at times. That is what needs to be fixed.
This may be true however YOU didnt break her and YOU can not FIX her. She has to FIX herself, giving her space is taking the FOCUS off of YOU and she either will look at herself or not.
LET GO - you can not speed this up but you can slow it down by holding on and begging, pleading, bargaining, and pursuing.