Made a huge mistake and slept with my x. Yes he still has a girlfriend. It's been 4 months since split. What are my next steps to handle this without making things worse? No texting, calling, go dark? Help! Has anyone else done this and how did they rectify it or did it help anyone?


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since