He loves me he loves me not

[JulieH]

Right now, I get to relive my youth reading the kids Roald Dahl. Laugh out loud funny. Like some of the funniest books I have ever read funny. I look forward to the fantasy and sci fi phase I am positive they will eventually love. You worked frodo in there well. Lol (I actually never read the last book of the lord of the rings trilogy. And I like that genre! )

I can relate to regretting how you treated your spouse. My husband would tell me that I had patience for everyone else but him. He also complained about how hyper critical and negative I was regarding him. I told him " I'm like that with myself" and he acknowledged that I have never been satisfied with anything about myself and how crazy it was. He also said he doesn't want the kids to be like that. I agree. He blames it on my parents and said he feels bad for me and how I was raised.

I have been learning to accept and laugh at some of my imperfections. But only some.

Perfect is the enemy of good. I like that.