Hi, its me again. So I got a text from a friend and it said what is your wife doing with this guy on facebook. Sure enough they are friends and she is friends with his whole family. I couldn't stand it anymore and felt compelled to know if she was actually having an affair. I found the guys address and at night drove there... Sure enough her car was there. I took a picture but did not go up to the door, I would be in jail now if I would have got out of my car. Instead I drove away and text her the picture.

Later on she called me and swore they just hang out and she is not having an affair. I do not know a married woman who hangs out with a single guy at his house at 9:30 pm and is not having and affair. I told her to stop lying and just admit it. Of course she will not. So any way at least I know, despite how I now feel about it.

The problem I have is whether I still want to DB. Part of me does part of me does not.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16