The first few months are the hardest especially when under the same roof. Start living the single life as much as you can..embrace it even if it hurts. It helped me to be reliant on me..i was with exw 26 years. I pushed my self to do things without her permission. Little by little I felt more in control of my days.

It was strange to watch my best friend turn into my worse enemy..I still dont undetstand it. She told me on her way out what a "great guy and husband" i was. live your life my friend. Wait on no one....


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden