As for the break. I do it also. But I do learn a lot about myself here. Yes it is hard because you feel like you are obsessing when you are here.
In regards to the past. Did you guys ever REALLY work in resolving issues after getting back together? I think that is a crucial part.
I hope I get the chance but I am scared of it
I would do nothing regarding serving papers. What I would do is just live life the way you want. Let things just play out. You don't need to jump into a relationship but you can go out and have a good time.
I know some people won't prob day that here but how do you know what you really want without exploring options? I am not saying have one night stands or physical relations at all but make friends.
Anyway just my thoughts.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15