Glad to hear from you. First I don't think in the grand scheme of things it has been that long. Think about how long it prob took her to get to the point of wanting to leave. Prob years.

If you feel you are ready to be done then be done. Don't say you are just going to be done because it is hard or you feel she isn't coming back. That to me means you are not over her but are over the situation

I guess that is fine also. But I hope it isn't a ploy to get a reaction. If you really feel you are done, you don't care what she is doing, if she showed up tomorrow and wanted to work and you would say no. Then you might be done. If not. Do nothing.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15