Wet

the situation with son 14 and OM concerns me

If it were my kid, I would also fight to get him out of there permanently
maybe wife can visit with him at a neutral place alone

The MLCer usually affairs down and this OM with a prior criminal record and possible alcohol use can be a terrible influence on a teenager..it could potentially hurt him..thats not something I would want for my kids if there was any possible way to protect him I would-
its a delicate age…

good luck


married 14 years
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bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
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