It may be a touch of mental illness, mlc or addiction or a little of each Maybe we never really know I also think some people follow the script of their parents MY XH followed his dads choices even though they never had a relationship I hope my son can break the chain Alanon is a great program where people discuss living/coping with the effects of alcohol with the people we love usually meetings are everywhere and phone meetings as well It is hard for us to understand why the MLCer or addicted person would do crazy things but if a person is under the effects of drugs and alcohol, they do not live in reality..they live in denial we continue to detach and let go we never know or can control another persons behavior and choices
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