So sorry to hear about your argument with W, at least you have been able to let the pressure cooker explode before it starts to destroy you from the inside. As you said it does say a lot about her and her values. Know that there is someone out there watching over you, and guiding you through this.
Even if I'm no longer a regular here, I always have a thought for you every day and wondering how you are doing. It's not an easy situation, try to enjoy every minute of your day.
I woke up happy just by hearing birds tweeting, whereas last year I hated it because it was too early. Can't believe the difference between last year and now! I bet in a couple of years time, the two of us will look back and think: "yep! It was blooming hard but we survived it and I'd trade my life now for the world"!