like your quote! there are good signs in your sitch, too- Wouldn't worry about W reading the books- what matters is keeping up the "new you", which W is definitely noticing. "Don't know who you are anymore" is an indicator that she is seeing your changes, and that's great! Remember, that WAS's will not know what's going on- but will slowly come around based on you changing your behaviors towards them. Key is not to focus on W's words(like D talk or bomb comments) and instead to focus on what you are going to do to save your M. Believe in yourself, and let that hope carry you through. You're on the road!
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
