It's a great start on setting a boundary. Remember that the format is similar to "If you ...., then .... will happen." HERE is Wonka's very good and useful cheat sheet for boundaries. I referred to it many, many times to help me establish and enforce boundaries.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present