Butterc...so sorry you are feeling poorly. The flu is no fun, especially on top of everything else.
WAH being cold is a normal part of the script, especially when under A fog. They are getting their needs met elsewhere and don't feel like they need anything from you. That's what makes it so difficult to do anything positive to repair your M when they are at this stage of the game. But fog is not permanent, and H's freeze out behavior is probably not either. You just have to hang in there and wait. You will get your chance to try to repair your M.
Take care of yourself and hope you feel better soon!!
