I agree 100% with Holding...DO NOT let your W read the books. She will use them against you. Everytime she sees you doing something that was suggested in the books she will use that info to reinforce her negativity towards you. She will tell you that you're only saying this or that because the BOOK TOLD YOU TO, or the only reason you're acting a certain way is because the BOOK TOLD YOU TO...she'll refuse to accept the fact that the book is teaching YOU something, she'll see it as 'acting' phoney. T2
