That is your decision on whether or not you want to place/enforce a boundary there. Does it move you forward or hold you back? Can you handle it? Does it feel awkward or bother you? Would it be ok if a male friend did it to you?

Last I saw he still wants to D and move on from each other. In my mind that means no more hanky panky. Can't have your cake and eat it too, right? This is just my opinion and some things to think through so you can make the best decision for you. If you choose to tell him, pick the format where you can best come from a place of strength without leaving any doubt as to your seriousness.


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present