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Anyway if we do recover it will be a new M a new at. I don't want the old one back.
Exactly. It's broken. It didn't work. Learn from it and move forward.

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I will work hard on what she said. Yes for her but in reality they are what I wanted too!
IMHO I disagree with the second sentence. I firmly believe you need to do it for yourself. These changes are for you. Your W just happened to be the one to point them out. So maybe scratch that sentence from your head and focus on:
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Furthermore they are part of the me I want to be regardless of who I am with and they are what I want for my sons.
No matter what happens between you and your W, you will always have you, and you will always be their father. This is a place of strength from which to work.

Zephyr - such an amazing post.


M: 8.5 T:10
Me:37 W:34 S:6

Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15
Piecing - 7/4/15 to present