That little caveat that you dropped on your other thread says a whole heck of a lot....
You're wife had an "extra marital affair" early on in the relationship and YOU'RE wondering how YOU became an angry guy? HELLO !!! Can you spell reaction to betrayal? Maybe, alot of your 'anger' and fear of abandonment is directly attached to your inability after that crisis to get the necessary counselling and support you needed back then and so your suppressed/unresolved feelings from that time came to the surface as self protection and anger?
You my friend are beating yourself up wayyyyyyyy to much...this M didn't go bad just because 'you're an angry' guy...it's gone bad because your W doesn't know how to act appropriately in a committed relationship either...
We're ALL angry Dustin...now it's just a matter of learning how to deal with that anger...just as YOU are doing now. Jan (T2)
