Agreed, I am meeting again with my lawyer today (saw them back in September the first time). We don't have any joint CC and I stopped putting money in the join accounts 3 weeks ago. I'm taking care of all bills and putting money for normal stuff in the joint account.
I blew it last night, she came in right before bed and started in on me. I did everything wrong, invalidated her feelings, told her to move out ASAP, told her I don't trust her (called her a lier and a cheater), and much more... She tells me she wants to be fair but I don't trust her. She want's the house, 50% of all assets, 1 year spousal support, primary custody of the kids (joint but her as primary). I'm ok with the 50% and spousal support but she cannot afford the house, and I think the kids will be better with me primary. At lease for the first 6 months, keep things a stable for them as posable. She can take kids every other weekend and Wednesday nights.
This [censored] so bad, the hurt, the anger from her, the coldness, it's all starting to catch up with me.
I've been Gal'ing like crazy but I'm exhausted, I need some down time. Going to focus on NC/180's and protecting myself and the kids.
