Hey OTW,

Try to make the best of the interactions you have now as they happen. Seize the moments in the now. From those you can build on the future moments.

Its the expectations that are going to cause trouble if you plan something. Be open to spontaneous plans as opportunity presents its self.

Careful as you don't want to build up in your mind how you see things going only to have it fall like a house of cards.

Also you don't need your W to have fun. Find stuff you like to do on your own. Remember your happiness comes from you, not from your W.

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016