OMG, that [censored]!

The only way to build trust is to earn it through your actions. Simple example - if your wife agrees that you can look at her phone if she's in the room, ONLY look at her phone if she's in the room. In my case when I had questions and wanted to look at her phone I asked her directly and made sure to say that I hadn't looked because that's what we had agreed to. She still resisted and I didn't end up looking, but I think I earned a little trust from her because I hadn't looked...


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou