Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

I will tell you this much, as long as the WW gets to have her OM/A, plus she gets her comfy home and the affection of her H.........why do you think she will be in any hurry? What you need to do is tell her, "You know, I have been thinking things over, and this setup just isn't working for me. You have an apartment and that's what you wanted in this separation. So now, we need to live like separated people. No more sleep overs on the couch or to get your cuddle time. You have your own place, and this is my place".

She may not like it, but so what? It is time for her to put her big girl panties on.

@sandi2
She does not have:
- her apartment/place she wants to go (she does not want to live with her mother)
- enough money to rent apartment for 2 months (and she does not want to live in rented place, she wants her own place (that I would buy!))
- real job
- my support

all she has is leverage to threaten with child, and even that is not bugging me anymore. As my lawyer said: 'child will be fine with any parent'.
And potential 50% of what I earned during marriage.

So yes, I agree on part that she need to wake up, but I can't kick her out (to her mothers), it is just not me as a person...


@TxHubby
yes, agree with every word you say. There is no OM except imaginary OM (she thinks she has a chance with 28y male fitness model)
I don't expect that to happen except in parallel universe

@shreeve
sorry, but I sleep like a baby most of the time. and when I wake up and worry about something meditation helps (for me).