Hope is not a Strategy- It looks done

[Squiggy]

You asked if anyone has done LRT. I did for about 3 months after I served my W (my sitch and reasons, not what I'm suggesting to you). I would only respond to things linked to S6 or joint responsibilities. That really pissed her off for quite a while, and I took a lot of spew from it. It was hard and hurt at the start, but it got easier. I became more detached and started enjoying life again because I had room to breathe, to heal, when I started acting as if we were divorced. I didn't stop LRT until she began the actions of returning home.

I agree with the others that it is time for LRT in your sitch. Break the cycle and make the changes. Do it without expectations.