Yes, it is attractive. Remember the Pursuer-Distancer principle? When you are strong, distanced, and confident, it's like throwing a bucket of fish into the shark tank. Being light, breezy, mysterious, full of PMA, and moving moves you back to the central you, who is an attractive, beautiful woman that deserves time and attention.
Were you a mopey, blubbering mess when you started dating your husband? Is that what attracted him to you? What did?
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have to put my bubble up and boundaries.
Yes. No matter how hard it is. There were many times where my W and I were together during the exchanges of S6, even when we started to reconcile. Most of those I was a hot mess inside, but she never caught it from the bubble I learned to erect around myself, and she complimented me many times on how strong and together I seemed.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
