Believe me, I KNOW how you're feeling! I think my H is out of town right now. Not positive, but pretty sure. And, know where he goes when he's out of town? Yep, that's right...straight to OW.
BUT, you don't even know if your XF left his house last night. He could just be trying to get under your skin. He might have been in bed early (ALONE), and you're sitting at your house worrying about him. I also don't know that my H is with OW. I can (and do) think it, but I have no proof. He might be out of town on a job. He does that sometimes. I keep trying to remind myself of that but it sure is hard. You just keep reminding yourself that you don't know what he did last night and you don't know what he's going to be doing this weekend. All you know is that he used a couple of your triggers against you and has you all jumpy. He's probably at work patting hisself on the back right now. Don't give him that power over you. He certainly hasn't earned it.
Just DB the crap out of him when he calls you today. I won't even bother with the "IF he calls" because we all know that he will. LOL. It's your turn to make him sweat! KILL HIM WITH KINDNESS even if it kills you. LOL
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it