G,

what do you want my friend? What arrangement would suit you and make you feel like and an involved father. What arrangement would make you feel like you were the best dad you could be.

And most importantly what is in your children's best interest? What works and in the best interest of your 17 year old isn't necessarily going to work or be in the best interest of your very gorgeous 2 year old.

All this is up for negiotation and mediation G. As Otw said you get to steer this ship.

Run your dream arrangement past us. We may be able to wiggle a little magic wand over it and support you to make it happen! No guarantees but we will certainly do our best.

Jellyxxx