Because with our carrier if we look at the screen as the call is being made we can see if the other person is on the other line. Weird right? And 'cause I try to, as the kids say (and me lol) "keep it real" with you guys... I would get super crazy mad and lash out when I saw that. Especially if he had already said goodnight and that he was going to bed.
But I haven't done that in forever. But now it's him. And if I try to be vague aka mysterious, when he asks who I'm talking to, it just makes him madder and I don't need that crap.
Plus as you can see from his excessive video calls he borders on stalking. Unless he is otherwise engaged *cough*.
However, I have always shut down (after going ape sg!t) on him and ignored him so a 180 would be to not do that. Because a carefree single gal that has to find a way to co-parent with her XF would be too fabulous and enjoying her super fun and awesome new single life to even care enough to block him. Or so I tell myself. Which is why I have come to the land of the heartbroken but sane for advice. I've made so many mistakes. Mostly by not coming here first or by ignoring the advice.
